Kata orang kalau hidup berumahtangga, kalau tak pernah berselisih faham tu kira bohonglah. Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit, ini pula suami isteri ……. macam lagu P. Ramlee & Saloma pulak 
Kalau tak nak berpanjangan, ikut petua ni. Kalau salah seorang tengah marah yang lagi seorang kena diam! ( walaupun hati tengah menggelegak ni ). Itu petua bahagia yang paling asas.
Kalau dua-dua tengah marah macam api kena minyak la..semakin marak la jadinya. Kalau seorang diam, yang tengah marah jadi tak lama..bila dia cool barulah kita cakap apa yang tak kena. Barulah hidup aman bahagia.
Anda macammana?
Kak Rahimah
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Menaka D
April 2, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Oh yes, I absolutely agree. I am the one who’s temperamental while my husband just keeps his cool everytime I yell or raise my voice at him. He doesn’t talk back or anything. He just keeps quiet. Just imagine what would happen if both us starting yelling at each other? Disaster?!
On the same token, I would feel really bad for behaving in such a childish way so I always apologize afterwards.
rahimah
April 2, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Yes Menaka,when they just keep quite, as soon as we ‘recover’we feel really bad.This is physchology and your spouse knows what to do when you are angry